Ich denke schon, dass man das mit dem Verlieben im Griff hat, weil man sich irgendwann durch Äusserlichkeiten nicht beeindrucken lässt. Theoretisch kann man darüber streiten, da gebe ich dir recht.

    Nach meinem Ex-Mann habe ich mir geschworen, nie wieder einen Mann. Dann kam der Vater meiner Kleinen und es hat mich richtig erwischt. Jetzt, in der Krise, der gleiche Spruch. Genug gelitten, immer an den falschen geraten. Nie wieder verlieben, anfangs zwar wunderschön, später nur Trauer, Stress, Hoffnungslosigkeit. Hoffe aber, es renkt sich alles wieder ein.

    I need love, love to ease my mind


    I need to find, find someone to call mine


    But mama said you can't hurry love


    No you just have to wait


    She said love don't come easy


    It's a game of give and take


    You can't hurry love


    No, you just have to wait


    You gotta trust, give it time


    No matter how long it takes


    But how many heartaches must I stand


    Before I find a love to let me live again


    Right now the only thing that keeps me hanging on


    When I feel my strength, yeah, it's almost gone


    I remember mama said


    You can't hurry love


    No you just have to wait


    She said love don't come easy


    It's a game of give and take


    How long must I wait how much more can I take


    Before loneliness will 'cause my heart, heart to break?


    No, I can't bear to live my life alone


    I grow impatient for a love to call my own


    But when I feel that I, I can't go on


    These precious words keeps me hanging on


    I remember mama said


    Can't hurry love


    No you just have to wait


    She said love don't come easy


    It's a game of give and take


    You can't hurry love


    No you just have to wait


    She said trust, give it time


    No matter how long it takes


    No love, love don't come easy


    But I keep on waiting, anticipating for that


    Soft voice to talk to me at night


    For some tender arms to hold me tight


    I keep waiting; I keep on waiting


    But it ain't easy, it ain't easy when mama said


    You can't hurry love no


    You just have to wait


    She said trust, give it time


    No matter how long it takes


    You can't hurry love


    No, you just have to wait


    She said love don't come easy


    It's a game of give and take


    You can't hurry love


    No, you can't

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    kann man sich echt dafür entscheiden, sich nicht mehr zu verlieben?

    Man kann sich entscheiden, möglichst nur noch Zeit zu Hause zu verbringen. Das dürfte das Risiko, sich zu verlieben, zumindest deutlich reduzieren.